Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Someone please help here I have no idea what to do:(?
Flip, as an older male who has been in a similar situation before, here's what you need to do: just move on. See what you have to understand about women is, the more you come off as NEEDING them, the less ATTRACTION they will feel for you. See, by you always being available, sending her texts, telling her how you feel and stuff like that, you are probably coming off as needy and desperate to her. This behavior IS NOT attractive to women. This kind of thing will only drive them away. So what you wanna do is just stop contacting her and be ok if she never wants to hang or anything. See, what you have to realize is that happiness comes from the inside. Not from any person or thing. No matter how smart, beautiful or funny she is, ultimately she CANNOT make you happy in any way. Sure, you can enjoy each other's company, but even if you were to end up a couple, the day would come where you got bored with the relationship. Trust me. We've all been there. It's just like getting a new video game, car, or clothing. It's cool at first, but with time it just becomes normal and routine. If you learned to view ALL of your relationships this way, you would be surprised at how attractive you would become because you would not come off as needy because you realize that you are responsible for your own happiness. In the future, just be the awesome guy that you are and let the ladies chase you. Never chase them. This only drives them away. It's just the way God made them. Be ok with one particular girl not liking you. It's not a big deal! The world is filled with MILLIONS of women right now who would love to get to know you. No sense in becoming an emotional slave or feeling bad over one girl who ultimately cannot make you happy. So just move on. If she wants anything, she will contact you. But let her chase you. If not, you are only going to put yourself in the postion of feeling good if she likes you, and bad if she doesn't. And that is NO WAY to live for anyone. Trust me. This is the only way to deal with women. Good luck!
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