Why is it she wont do this for me? ( q) 10 points!?

okay the same happened to me. so me and my girl were starting to have alot but she kept saying sorry honey but you're never getting THAT. but i think the way she DID give me oral was that i was soooo loving to her. like telling her how much i love her and kiss her out of nowhere. when she first gave me oral she didnt know what to do and neither did i. now she likes to go down on me everyday. she kisses me down there when we take a shower, sleeping on the bed, just messing around, in the kitchen. shes comfortable now doing that to me. so i guess just love her soo much that it'll make her feel comfortable. try showering together to boost up your relationship closeness. ok well bye and good luck.